Conscious Bride

"....we tend to think of the wedding and all that surrounds it as only a happy time. While there is much joy in creating a day that celebrates and consecrates the love between two people, there is also an underbelly that we tend to ignore. When asked, most people will say that their wedding process included as much chaos, grief, and confusion as joy and bliss. Yet they also felt that they had to keep those emotions hidden...."

".....The true work during the engagement is not so much about finding the perfect cake and flowers as it is separating from and grieving the ties to the current identity, exploring fears about marriage, and having honest conversations about expectations of what it means to be a "wife" and "husband" today...."

A real and honest site. It speaks to me heaps. Wonderful community of ppl all over the world in there - http://www.consciousweddings.com/index.php?d=about